Are We Committed to the Right Things in the Right Way?
Are We Committed to the Right Things in the Right Way?
€ 30.00
The workshops are short events that include transformative exercises and cover current and interesting topics arising from collective consciousness.
I, personally, am a real freedom lover. And the commitment, hmmm, may feel like a constraint to freedom. This is confusing. What to choose? Do we need to choose or can we make peace between the two – commitment and freedom?
Do you know that we can also be committed to depression, sadness, hatred, revenge, avoiding responsibility, loneliness, isolation, and failure?
And why is that?
That is because we subconsciously believe that joy, love, flexibility, responsibility, or connection come with a price we are not willing to pay.
For example: we may have witnessed in our family that a commitment to marriage (connection) brings loss of freedom, lots of suffering and pain, emotional abuse, and losing the opportunity to express our true selves. Maybe our father gave up his “dangerous” profession in car racing and became a corporate employee in order to be there for his family. And he became a bitter, dissatisfied, angry person who often drinks and behaves in an aggressive way.
We consciously can deeply desire the connection. But, if we witnessed a negative example of the connection in our family, we can subconsciously decide that commitment to marriage/connection is dangerous and makes everyone miserable. This subconscious belief may make us choose the partners that are not available, or the ones that will leave us. This will ensure we will stay safe from the misery of marriage/connection. Or we can still choose the “connection” and perpetuate the misery of our family.
The key to successful commitment is that we become conscious of our opposing subconscious beliefs. And to make sure that what we consciously push for is not endangering us (as perceived by the subconscious). For that, we need to understand the context of our traumatic experiences. And to learn how to have “pure” forms of what we want. Connection without loss of freedom, success without loss of friends and family, joy without being in danger…
On our next workshop Are we committed to the right things in the right way?
we will work through our obstacles to commitment in our professional and private life. And this may result in achieving what we want wholeheartedly.
Wholeheartedly is the key – we make sure our whole heart wants what we are committing to. And this is freedom too – because it is our heart’s choice…
